‘90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days’: Birkan Wishes He Never Met Laura, Rick Betrays Trisha

The moment the families gave their approval, you could almost feel the story snap into place—like everything was supposed to finally make sense. That was the promise, anyway. But promises have a way of cracking under pressure, and when they do, the fall is never quiet.

It started with one brutal question in the air: why did he cheat?

After everything—after the conversations, the expectations, the hard-won permission—someone still chose betrayal. And the person being confronted didn’t even try to dress it up. The truth came out like a verdict, sharp and final: “I mean, after getting her family’s approval, I just… it up. Leave me alone. I don’t want anything from you.” The anger wasn’t only about the act itself. It was about what the act meant: disrespect. Humiliation. The kind of damage that doesn’t fade after the argument ends.

And then came the part that made it worse—because the anger wasn’t just personal. It was protective. The speaker couldn’t stop wondering how deep the betrayal had gone, and whether the other person understood the full weight of what they’d done. “I don’t know how much damage she realizes she’s done. It’s thrown a lot of doubt in my mind.” Doubt is dangerous in relationships. It’s not loud at first. It creeps in. It starts asking questions while everyone else is pretending nothing happened.

That’s exactly what made the next apology feel so heavy. This wasn’t a gentle “I’m sorry.” This was a confession delivered after something explosive—an event that left witnesses, embarrassment, and consequences behind.

On 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days, Elise shows up with regret burning on her tongue. She says she’s ashamed—shocked that she could do something so out of character and so public. “Sorry. I’m embarrassed for myself. Like, I’m… I’m sorry that I did that to you.” But the apology doesn’t land like a reset button. Instead, it opens the door to one terrifying question: Did you realize what he did last night in front of people?

Because Elise’s apology isn’t coming from emptiness. It’s coming from chaos—the kind that happens when emotions overrule judgment. Elise admits she acted “cool,” like she could control how it looked, like she could turn the situation into something harmless. But then she admits the truth nobody wants to hear: she shouldn’t have told everyone. She shouldn’t have dragged the drama into the open.

And still, Josh—trying to be the stabilizing force—offers another chance. Not because he’s convinced, but because he wants to believe that people can change. “Josh says that he’ll give her another chance after all the drama. It will not happen again.”

Elise doesn’t reject the forgiveness. She accepts it—almost too fast. But when Josh asks, “Are you giving me another chance?” her response is cautious, hesitant, like she’s watching herself from the outside. She can feel how fragile everything is. “Not very confident.” Because confidence isn’t something you can demand. It’s something trust builds slowly—and betrayal burns it down in minutes.

At the same time, another story is unfolding like a slow-motion disaster—quiet at first, then suddenly unbearable. Michael is being looked at through a different lens. Beer—who seems certain that something romantic must exist—has a theory about Laura. And once you have a theory, every glance becomes evidence.

Michael is confused by it, but not in the way you’d expect. He’s not confused about Laura’s behavior. He’s confused about Beer’s certainty. “I don’t know why he insists that I’m in love with you. I really don’t.” His defense isn’t dramatic. It’s simple. It’s almost painfully ordinary. He insists they’re just friends.

But Laura doesn’t buy the explanation.

She says the truth the situation has been circling: Michael’s closeness, Michael’s attention, Michael’s timing—something in it feels more than friendly. She claims that Michael may be protecting her, thinking about the future of her relationship, weighing what’s best for Beeron. But the words she uses carry tension: she doesn’t believe he has “no feelings” romantically. And even if Michael didn’t mean to blur boundaries, the emotional damage has already been done.

Then the conflict turns more personal—faster—because Laura isn’t just reacting anymore. She’s challenging what’s being assumed about her.

Beer—upset and cornered by the idea that Laura had feelings—pushes back with a memory that turns into a fight. It