Y’all, I was on TikTok trying to mind my business—like, honestly, I was just trying to scroll, laugh a little, and not get pulled into anybody else’s drama. Then I stumbled onto something that genuinely disturbed me. And I’m not the type to exaggerate. I don’t even like doing all this internet speculating… but this? This can’t be ignored.

Because it was Loren.

Now, I know some of y’all might be thinking, “Here we go—Auntie about to drag somebody again.” But hear me out. I tried to ignore Loren even when he was on 90 Day Fiancé. I did. I tried to let it go. But after seeing what I just saw, something feels off—dangerously off—and it has people talking for a reason.

Let me remind y’all who Loren is, because his name comes with a whole history.

If you remember, Loren appeared on Season 7 of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days as an American man traveling to the Philippines to meet with Faith. Faith wasn’t just some random storyline—she was a woman he’d been in a long-distance relationship with. The idea sounded romantic on paper, but the way it played out on screen? It raised eyebrows so fast you could hear them spinning.

During the show, Loren was portrayed as having limited financial resources, and on top of that, a lot of people thought he was unstable—like, not just emotionally, but even in how he carried himself day to day. Viewers weren’t watching some charming, struggling but well-meaning guy… they were watching somebody who seemed pulled apart by circumstances, choices, and whatever was going on inside his head.

And for many of us, that was a problem. Not because you can’t have tough times, but because it looked like the tough times were shaping the way he treated people—and the way he moved through his own life. It didn’t feel grounded. It didn’t feel stable. It felt like something was always about to collapse.

So yeah, his storyline? In my opinion, it was messy. And throughout the seasons, the pattern started forming. The behavior. The circumstances. The questions that viewers couldn’t shake. People watched him interact, watched how he presented himself, watched how situations seemed to spiral—and eventually it turned into one of those casting conversations where everybody’s like, “Why is nobody putting a stop to this?”

Then the interviews started.

And I’m telling you, those weren’t calming. Those were wild. It made it feel like Loren was still continuing the same energy from the show, like the show was only the beginning and not the end. It got more chaotic the more time passed, and the audience kept noticing details that didn’t add up.

Now—let’s be clear—what I’m about to say is not verified. It’s coming from Reddit, and it’s coming from different people who claim they have information, claim he’s returned, claim he stayed after filming, claim different things. None of it is official. But here’s the part that matters: according to those claims, Loren seems to be in the Philippines—or at least he was after filming.

And then TikTok brought him back into the spotlight.

Because I need y’all to look at what I saw, and I know the wording sounds dramatic, but that’s exactly how it felt—like I was watching something unravel in real time. I tried to ignore him before, but once I saw the clip, I felt that immediate chill in my stomach.

Hold on—let me bring him up.

Because what I saw wasn’t just “normal camera movement” or “a bad angle.” It wasn’t just “he looks tired.” It was the way he was moving.

Loren didn’t look like he was fully there.

Some people online—specifically from accounts like Shoutout to 90 Day Fiancé Memes—claimed things like, “Looks like Loren is having a really good time with his new lady.” But y’all… that is not what his face looked like. That is not what his body looked like. And you can’t convince me otherwise.

He was walking—almost too straight, almost too rigid—like his body had its own plan and his mind was lagging behind. Like he wasn’t just distracted. Like he was somewhere else.

And the scariest part? It wasn’t one moment. It was the whole vibe.

His eyes didn’t have that spark. No life in them. No focus. No intention like you’d expect from a person simply going about their day. It looked like his attention was floating, like he wasn’t connecting to what was happening around him.